My ex-husband is But I suspect maybe she has depression about that subject. Right now, society is saying that if a woman likes it, that is gospel. In it for the short haul: why people are calling time on I have read the above advise but still not doing anything to me Michael. Ive had one previous girlfriend who we always had a sexual attraction and always wanted to have sex and I just wish I had that same urge with my wife. I agree that there are seasons where we need to work on issues pertaining to our sex life together.
Porn however is the only thing keeping our marriage together right now otherwise we would not be having sex. They need to be discussed however painful that can be. You treated girls who treated you bad with respect? Like many in this forum, we too have sex issues which need resolving. Forcing yourself to try and like their specialty is a terrible idea and will make you unhappy and resentful of your partner. Sex is not everything and I understand that but how could you ever have real and lasting happiness with someone that you are not even physically attracted to?